Do you have a solid mindset for the new year? If not, let’s get you on the right path with the steps I’ve used for years to manifest my life! We’re going to discuss my secret hacks to get you aligned with your dream life. I know that’s a very bold statement, but I have to tell you, I have been using these strategies for over a decade, and I see it happening in my own life, for my family, with people I work with, and my students – it’s all around us.
When we talk about secret hacks to get aligned, I want to talk about how to get aligned, why it’s important, and how you can use these hacks for anything that you want in your life. Think about a typical day, what do we do? We wake up, and we’re hitting the snooze, right? It could be a result of us being in a bad mood, heading into a job we don’t love, or we’re just not feeling amazing. This is how most of us start our days. A lot is going on in the world, and it can feel very heavy.
Think of being on a vibrational scale. All the negative things are at the bottom of the scale, and the things we want in this world are at the top. There is a huge gap between the two. That gap is the ickiness that you feel every day. The angst and frustration that you feel. If you feel stuck, the reason why is, you’re at the bottom of the scale, and you’re hanging out here every day.
Get in alignment.
In order to get what you want, you have to get aligned with what you want, but how do you do that? Well, ask yourself: “If I want more money, or I want to quit that stressful job, think, what does that life look like? Energetically? What would that be like?” If it’s at the top of your scale, it’s abundant, creative, and passionate. It has a purpose.
To reach the top of the scale mentally, you have to get in a good positive state to attract that into your life. Most of us spend our time in the middle of the scale where we’re feeling good for a minute because something good happened. Then, we drop back down like the majority of the world, and end up hanging out down there.
Start attracting your dream life.
You are the direct reflection of what you’re attracting. I know that’s kind of harsh, but whatever you’re seeing right now is what you created. It’s what you’ve been intentionally resonating with and spending your time on in the last 90 days and beyond.
If you’re just starting out and wondering where your money is, or you had a good vibe for a couple of days, remember, it takes time, consistency, and discipline. I encourage you to identify what it is you want in order to get it. You have to be really honest with yourself on where you’re at. Then say to yourself, “How am I going to get up there?” Focus your time and attention on the actions that will get you there.
Get clear on your why and commit.
When you think about moving into a better neighborhood, or a better home, why is that important to you? Is it because you want to have a safe neighborhood to be able to take
your kids on a bike ride? Or to have a neighbor that you can say, “Hey, can you get Timmy off the bus?”
Once you get clear on your why, you have to get into the right headspace as if it’s already happened. This is the hard part because you’re not there yet. I just passed my third anniversary of quitting my job to be a full-time mompreneur. I spent many years before that envisioning that day. It wasn’t until I fully aligned myself with that lifestyle that it started happening.
I would take personal days, and spend the whole day doing what I would do if I were a full-time entrepreneur. I would go to the gym, get people on Zoom, meet people for coffee, go live on social media, and create content, just like I was an entrepreneur. Well, me getting into that lifestyle, I knew what it felt like, and I anchored myself on that. I would often daydream about what it would be like – being able to get my kids off to school and pick them up, spending every day creating content, and connecting with people in messenger. By doing that, it happened very fast for me. I went from someone who was not making a lot of money at my corporate job, to being able to pass six figures in 90 days when I launched my brand.
So, what’s next?
I want you to pay attention to how you are vibrating energetically throughout the day. Your emotions are your guide. If you’re not feeling so awesome, the clue is that you’re not aligned. You’re not aligned with what you want. Everything you want is in a positive vibration. It is time to get aligned!
You got this, Goal Diggers!
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